Friendship, As Is Determined If It Is Really True

Friendship, as is determined if it is really true

Who is a good friend? The real friendship is something very difficult to find, since people come and go over time, in the same way, the distance causes the connection with people to become very difficult. On the other hand, when you know someone new it is very difficult to trust him or her fully. In addition, when you are an adult people only approach because they need some of you. For this reason the objective of the essay is to determine when a friendship is true. We must all be clear who our true friends are and in whom we deposit our trust 

When it comes to whether it is easy or not finding a real friend, we can say that it becomes uncertain when the person you talked most or salt go away and you almost don’t see it. The departure between friends can cause a decrease in the special connection that builds a friendship;It is difficult to maintain a relationship of any type at a distance. According to Samuel Johnson (1780) "the distance has the same effect on the mind as on the eye", if you stop seeing something eventually you will forget that. However, as Helen Keller (1936) said "True friends never depart, maybe in distance, but never in the heart". Although each person is different and despite the fact that the distance constitutes an important factor that may break communication in a relationship, when there is true friendship there are no barriers that can destroy it. 

On the other hand, another factor complicates finding a true friendship is trust, since giving our trust costs more than anything else in the world.

By knowing someone new, you don’t know what that person really is like, it may be that they make connection to the beginning and then do not congen with her or him or quite the opposite. The important thing is to give you time to discover how that new person who will enter your life is. As Heller (2016) said "good friends know each other well … look good from whom you look, that in the world there is a lot of falsehood". If you blindly trust someone you don’t even know, you are very likely disappointed or betrayed. Since, trusting someone blindly is not recommended, especially if you are just beginning to know the person.

Finding a person to call friend is one of the most difficult challenges of today, because, this person is someone who became part of our life. He will share with you not only the facial moments, but will be there supporting you in difficult times. This challenge is difficult when you are an adult, since so many obligations complicates to socialize with the people of your work or study area. According to Thoreau (1845) "things do not change, we change us". In adult life the influences are very important, so you run into people who will only seek to take advantage of you. It is for all that that our principles always have to be clear and ensure that the people around us are compatible with us.

In conclusion, finding a real friend is difficult, but knowing how to identify when a friendship is legitimate is possible. What is true is that true friends are not separating the distance between them. It is important to give you the time to meet someone. You never have to let people manipulate us. We must know who really love us and those who only use us, since it is the true relationships that will make us enjoy life.